I’ll say this…..When black women, SPECIFICALLY, brag about how much a man spoils them, a lot of men throw huge temper tantrums
black women are the only ones who have to prove why they “deserve” to be treated well and given nice things.
I SWEAAAR!!! People think we crazy for saying this but it is soooooo true!
Its so sad to see
Other brothas just need to realize, you’ve gotta learn what she likes, make note of it and study that ish. Then periodically gift and cherish and share things with them as such. It SHOULD NOT be a chore to appreciate. If anything it should be genuine and as thought about as much as he thinks of grooming.
So yeah bro, if you’re out and you notice something nice. Practice your selfishness, and reflect o. How she would like “said thing’s ” and secure it. Be more mindful of your gestures. Brothas just need to master their selfish-self focused-betterment for the sake of a better.. Conversation, communication and all around relationship with her and whomsoever.
‘Race and racism is a reality that so many of us grow up learning to just deal with. But if we ever hope to move past it, it can’t just be on people of color to deal with it. It’s up to all of us – Black, white, everyone – no matter how well-meaning we think we might be, to do the honest, uncomfortable work of rooting it out. It starts with self-examination and listening to those whose lives are different from our own. It ends with justice, compassion, and empathy that manifests in our lives and on our streets.’ — Michelle Obama